Chuyện của Nguyệt

Day 21: What three lessons do you want your children to learn from you?
🌸 Till now I do not have many experiences, I am not sure that the lessons I am writing right now is good for the future of my children. However, learning lessons from the past is a wise thing that we should do. I always want my children to be good in the future.
Here I am with three lessons from me that I want my children to learn from me.

1. Don’t care about what people say about yourself.

Few years ago, exactly in the past, I cared too much about what people think about me. I followed most rules. I did not say what I really wanted to say because I was afraid. I was afraid if I had made mistakes. I worried. I thought about what people would say about me. But now, I do not care about that anymore. It makes my life better. I feel much happier than being the person I was in the past.

2. Not afraid to fail

“How can he/she do that?”
“Why they are successful like that?”
“ Why I cannot?”
I always wonder about these when I meet somebody who is better than me, in studying, in life and in my job. Many times, I find the answer for me, and the answer is that they are not afraid of failure. Just do it as much as you can.
I have read this sentence: “If you put your effort and concentration into playing to your potential, to be the best that you can be, I don’t care what the scoreboard says at the end of the game, in my book we’re going to be the winners.”

3. Be the best version of yourself

Nobody is perfect. This is the naked truth we have yet to accept. You can be a much happier person once you figure out who you truly are and when you learn how to be yourself.I am on the road to find out the answer for the question :”who am I?”.
This has taken a lot of time. However, I believe that I can do it.

🌸That’s all. Thanks for reading ❤